Dating Strategy Session

Stop second-guessing. Start dating with intention.

When your life is international, dating rarely follows a simple script. Different cultures, different timelines, different expectations mean it’s easy to lose sight of what you actually want.

This private, one-to-one session cuts through the confusion and gives you perspective, clarity, and a realistic path forward.

Made for people who date across borders

This session is for you if you:

  • live abroad or have moved between countries

  • date across cultures or languages

  • feel out of step and disconnected from local dating norms

  • want honest, experienced guidance from someone who understands the complexity of international dating

WHAT HAPPENS IN THE SESSION

What we work on together:

  • We’ll look at your dating history with fresh eyes: what’s worked, what hasn’t, and what might be getting in your way.

  • Through a guided exercise, we’ll identify the values that genuinely matter to you (not the ones dating culture tells you to prioritise!).

    These become your filter for every dating decision going forward.

  • You’ll finish the session with a clear and realistic sense of your next steps, whether that’s dating more intentionally, broadening who you consider, or exploring more personalised support.

Most people arrive knowing that something isn’t working. We leave the session knowing exactly what to change.
— Alysia Tofflemire, certified matchmaker

Testimonials

  • I came away with so much more clarity, especially noticing how my preferences have changed since I was last actively dating!

    - Thomas (name changed to protect identity)

  • [...] I have been remembering your strategy and feeling much more confident when I'm out!

    Leah (name changed to protect identity)

  • Thank you for the advice to try new events; two men asked for my number last week!

    Karolina (name changed to protect identity)

SESSION DETAILS

  • Format: 60 minutes, online (or in-person in Berlin)

  • Investment: €99 (incl. VAT where applicable)

  • Includes: a personalised follow-up summary with your key insights and next steps