Alto Matchmaking is a boutique matchmaking service based in Berlin, working with internationally-minded singles across Europe.

Our services include private matchmaking, one-to-one dating strategy sessions, and a complimentary singles database for those who want to be considered for introductions, all carefully designed to provide a healthy and intentional dating experience.

Dating apps are built around volume and superficial qualities. Alto is the opposite; we are discreet, human-led, and personal. We take the time to understand who you are before introducing you to anyone. You won’t browse profiles or swipe. Every introduction is hand-selected, personally facilitated, and followed up.

We also don’t use algorithms or AI matching tools. Every match is the result of human judgement and experience.

Private matchmaking with Alto is for internationally-minded singles in Europe who are seriously ready for a committed, values-aligned relationship. People who have full lives, clear values, and find that the usual ways of meeting people these days are falling short.
If you’re not yet ready for private matchmaking, a dating strategy session or joining our singles database could be a great starting point.

We begin with an in-depth consultation to understand your values, relationship history, lifestyle, and what genuine compatibility looks like for you. From there, we search, screen, and introduce you to carefully selected matches, drawing on our own network and our trusted partner matchmakers across the globe. After each introduction we gather feedback, refine the search, and keep you informed throughout.

Alto’s standard 6-month engagement includes unlimited introductions. There are no arbitrary caps; we introduce as many carefully selected matches as the process requires. Our focus is always on quality and values alignment rather than volume.

Feedback is a central part of our process. If an introduction doesn’t feel right, we use that feedback to refine the search and ensure future matches are better aligned. You’ll always know the full context of an introduction.

No. Unlike dating apps, your information is never publicly visible. Matches are introduced personally and thoughtfully, and you have the right to decline at any stage. All data is handled in strict accordance with GDPR.

Private matchmaking with Alto is a six-month engagement, with packages starting from €2,495 (incl. VAT). The investment varies depending on the scope and complexity of the search.

Since every client’s situation is different, we discuss the right package during your consultation. Book yours to find out more.

There are two good starting point. A dating strategy session is a one-to-one, 60-minute session designed to give you clarity and a concrete path forward. Alternatively you can join our singles database at no cost, and be considered for introductions with Alto’s clients, when a suitable match arises.