Who we are

We believe that meaningful, authentic connections transcend cultural boundaries. Based in Berlin and serving a diverse, internationally-minded community, we are a boutique agency dedicated to helping you find your ideal partner through a bespoke, personalised approach.

Founded by Alysia Tofflemire, Germany’s first certified matchmaker, Alto Matchmaking is uniquely equipped to serve Europe’s dynamic and multicultural communities. With a strong background in international business leadership and global partnerships, Alysia understands the complexities of dating in a globalised world - especially when navigating cultural differences and varying relationship expectations.

“Our mission is to create healthy relationships that go beyond the superficiality of modern dating apps by focusing on shared values, cultural compatibility, and real chemistry.” — Alysia Tofflemire, Founder

Whether you’ve recently relocated or are a long-time resident seeking a partner who appreciates diverse backgrounds, our service offers an elevated experience. For us, it’s not just about finding a date, it’s about building a relationship that reflects the richness of our global community, honours your individuality, and brings out the best in you.

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