Values-driven matchmaking for international singles
For people who are serious about finding the right person
Dating across borders is a different experience
When your life is international and built across cities, cultures, and languages, dating rarely follows a simple path.
The people around you don’t always share your reference points. Apps flatten the complexity of who you are into a profile on a screen. And the fuller your life, the harder it becomes to meet someone who genuinely belongs in it.
Alto is based in Berlin and works with singles across Europe. We understand the particular challenges of dating when “home” is hard to define.
Intentional matchmaking, not a numbers game
Alto works with a small number of clients at a time. Every introduction is hand-selected, not generated by an algorithm.
We take the time to deeply understand who you are, where you are in your journey, and what genuine compatibility looks like for you specifically.
Founded by Alysia Tofflemire, Germany’s first certified matchmaker, Alto brings together European cultural awareness, ethical practice, and a deeply human approach to finding lasting connection.
How our matchmaking works
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Every great connection begins with a conversation. Fill out our confidential matchmaking application to help us understand your values, relationship goals, and what you’re looking for in a partner.
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During your free 30-minute consultation, we’ll discuss your cultural and personal values, relationship goals, past experiences, and what makes a great match for you. This is your opportunity to learn about our process and see if we’re the right fit.
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Once you’ve joined our exclusive matchmaking network, we begin a highly personalised, cross-cultural search for your ideal match. Unlike dating apps, our certified matchmakers carefully hand-select introductions based on shared values, lifestyle alignment, and long-term compatibility, ensuring that each match is meaningful, intentional, and suited to your relationship vision.
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When we find a match that aligns with your preferences, we personally introduce you in a way that is comfortable for everyone. Our goal is to facilitate genuine, exciting connections. After each introduction, we gather feedback to refine your journey and ensure the best possible experience.
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Your journey doesn’t stop at introductions. We provide ongoing support, dating strategies, and personalised follow-up.
Are you ready to meet someone truly special? Take the first step towards meaningful connections today!
Services we offer
Alto’s signature service
A discreet, unhurried process in which we search, screen, and introduce you to carefully selected matches based on shared values, life stage, and real compatibility.
Expert guidance tailored to you
A private 1:1 session for internationally-minded singles who want clarity before committing to anything more.
For those who want to be considered
Join Alto’s network of vetted, internationally-minded singles across Europe. Membership is complimentary, and if a match arises with one of our clients, we’ll be in touch.
Book a consultation
Experience matchmaking that goes beyond the ordinary. Book your complimentary 30-minute consultation with us and discover our services. What awaits you is a personalised, thoughtful approach to dating designed by a certified matchmaker to connect you with like-minded individuals who align with your values and relationship goals.
Our Company Ethos
Our mission is to create meaningful, lasting relationships through a personalised and culturally-aware approach. Love should be intentional, built on shared values, and enriched by mutual understanding - not reduced to algorithms or endless swiping.
We believe in authenticity, trust, and deep compatibility. Every introduction is carefully curated, honouring each client’s individuality and relationship vision. With an awareness of how culture shapes connection, we foster relationships that transcend borders and bring people together in a way that feels natural, fulfilling, and real.
Contact Us
For general enquiries, collaborations, or venue partnerships, feel free to reach out via the contact form. If you're looking to explore matchmaking services, please book a complimentary consultation here.